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I Was a Good Kid: Why Some Christian Faith Testimonies Seem Lame (but Aren't!)

Will and Monica were both drug users. They shared this dark fact from their past to build credibility with their audience: teens, parents, and youth workers. Will and Monica host "Christian Sexuality," the latest,  12-part video curriculum by the Center for Faith, Sexuality & Gender and ProjectSix19 .  The series addresses society's constantly shifting norms about gender and sex by presenting a biblical call to sexual integrity. In the first video, Will and Monica set the tone by telling their stories of addiction, struggle, and overcoming temptation in the name of Jesus. Theirs was a powerful testimony. A moving testimony. Compelling testimony. Remarkable. My testimony, by comparison, is lame I grew up as a good, moral kid in suburbs of a midwestern city. I said grace before dinner, ate my peas, and asked to be excused from the table. I never smoked, drank, or advanced beyond a few awkward French kisses with neighborhood girls. I swore with my friends, teased my sis
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